thoughts (2)

September 23, 2009 at 9:28 am (words)

I, Ara Katina Herrero, mean no offenses to anyone and only shows my opinions and feelings through written articles. Living in this free world,  everyone has the right to do whatever they want to do, say whatever they want to say, with no offensive acts. I have no intensions to offend anyone, please bear with me. Ü

Being exposed to a new environment and people around me, I have learned how to appreciate my own culture, my people and my country – The Philippines.

When i was younger and was still studying back in The Philippines, I don’t care about singing the national anthem, complaining why our pledge was so long and why must we stand everyday to do the same routine daily. Now i realized, how much such things mean to me.

No one know about it but us. No one knows how the Americans influenced us greatly after conquering The Philippines for 33 years, though such influence made us better speakers, English speakers.

Let me talk about the English in The Philippines.

English has been our medium of instruction in schools, and we’ve been learning it since birth. With our Filipino accent (specifically tagalog), our English became comprehensive since we speak slower and clearer. Teachers do teach their students proper English, in written and oral forms.

I remember, during English period in The Philippines, we had to buy this booklet and do spelling quizzes. It was terrible – so much. I usually get a 2/10 marks. hahaha. Our teacher taught us how to spell words through variables, sounds and syllables.  Grammar is also our thing. We studied how to construct good sentences.

The amazing thing regarding this matter is that, we “all” try to speak English – clear English.

Filipinos use American accent for English, though we are also open with British accent. However, in my opinion, i guess American’s English is better since it’s clearer and more straightforward.

Why am i talking about English? Good question. I can’t stop comparing Singapore’s English to Filipinos’ English.

I was shocked when i got exposed to Singaporeans’ English – singlish. They converse with “lah”, “hor”, “lor” and whatsoever, (from their different racial accents), and when they ask questions, it’s mostly wrong, when we talk about grammar, and shortcut forms of every sentences. Yes it’s singlish, not English, not even a British accent. Let me give one example.

When i was in kindergarten, if we wanted to go to the bathroom, we were told to ask like this: “Teacher, may I go to the toilet?” (since may shows politeness) but in Singapore, students ask their teachers like this: “Can i go toilet?” which is shorter and exclusion or lack of politeness. This is not a big deal, yet.

Another one is, if you are asking for an approval or agreement, you ask: “Is this okay/alright?” yet they ask like this: “can? can?” – redundant plus, grammatically wrong.

Let’s stop about Singlish versus English now. All i want to share is how we study English in The Philippines.

Yes, spelling always existed. The English teacher grabs a dictionary and looks for “difficult” words, asking us to spell it. After 10 or more words of spelling was (in my side) badly done, the teacher would ask us to check every meaning of the words given and then use it in a sentence. Though it was difficult, we learn more and i do miss such surprise spelling quizzes. Everyone will be like.. “aawww!!”. haha..
Every term, we also had declamations, spelling bees, and another one i forgot how’s it called. Anyway, Declamation refers to a contest where, contestants need to memorize a long “story/speech” and act it on stage. Spelling bee was a competition of, students holding a mini blackboard and a chalk, the MC says a “difficult” word and contestants were to spell it out correctly. Another one which i forgot how you call it, a contestant picks up a question and answers the question correctly, with time limit.

I was in the bus when i was thinking about my elementary days back in The Philippines, my high school days, happier and more exciting than what is currently happening to me. I missed my English teachers before, who taught me how to pronounce words perfectly fine for people to understand.

Let’s go back to the Singlish case. When we say “with”, it’s pronounced as “wid” not “wif” as how they pronounce it. Then, i get wrong when i pronounce Black as “blak” not “blek”, Bag as “bug” not “beg”. What i mean is, i use American accent, so my pronunciation can’t be considered as wrong, but considerable right since it’s Americanized. Consideration is appreciated. I am just so not used to speaking British English.

Also, they study through compositions, letter writings and comprehension passages. Yes, it’s all helpful, but let’s focus on comprehension works. You are given passages to read and answer the questions that follows. One example is when they ask you, “In your opinion, ……” you are supposed to answer the question with your opinion. However, why do they look for “keywords” from the passages when they are asking for opinions? I thought opinions are all correct – no right, no wrong answers? Anyway, that’s how it goes.

I just don’t know why must there be “keywords” in every answers, if you can just answer the questions based on your understanding? Even though the word is not there, it should be correct it the “idea” is there. That should be it, but i guess, it is not.

Oh well, after all i said, all i can say is: I am proud to be a Filipino, though discriminated and inferiorized by some, we are all survivors and way better than the others. Admit it, we’re all over the world. haha..

All by, arak3nah.♥

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The Girls’ Meaning. Ü

September 23, 2009 at 7:47 am (Girls Vs Guys)

It takes us hours to prepare when we go out not ‘cause we’re flirty but because we want to look good for you.

Please don’t openly stare at other girls’ legs when we’re together. Only a few girls can forgive you for that and only a few will stare along with you and think nothing of it.

When you notice a change in mood and you ask us what’s up and we say “nothing”, trust me, it’s not NOTHING. 70% of the time, it’s something you did that’s why we’re sad/mad.

When this happens, tell us that you want to know, but if we won’t tell you now, you’ll just wait till we’re ready. 99.9% of the time, we WILL tell you then.

Flowers, on any occasion, are not corny.

Flowers are most appreciated especially when there’s no occasion. :)

You don’t have to spew lines from Shakespeare just to make us melt.
A simple SINCERE compliment does wonders.

And yes, sincerity goes a loooong long way.

Text us goodmorning and text us goodnight. Text us the moment we’ve been gone 20 feet away from you. Text us to find out if we’re home, if we’ve eaten—showing you care can be just as clear as I love you.

You don’t have to be handsome for a girl to like you. It’s all about personality and how you carry yourself.

You expect girls to be pretty and fresh all the time—do the same for us. A smelly, sweaty boy is expected, but we’d rather have you smelling good. And yes, smelling good counts. :)

Don’t feel bad when we pay up or are too shy to say what we want you to buy for us. We just don’t want you to think we like you for your money.

Initiate praying before meals. Good boys are always hard to find, so prove you’re one of them.

Don’t be afraid to play with your little siblings or to kiss your mom or dad in front of us. It makes us go awwww. :”>

Give us your old jacket or shirt or jersey. We like wearing your clothes and making them our own. It shows people that we’re yours.

Look us in the eye when you want to say something. We will believe you.

You boys say we’re complicated—but wouldn’t life be boring if we weren’t? ;) :P

All a girl ever wants from a guy is his effort to show her just how much he cares for her and how much he loves her.

grabbed from: Bianca

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thoughts :) (1)

April 26, 2009 at 6:07 am (words) (, )

After hearing the “Business Talk” last Thursday, I realized that Philippine’s College Education and Singapore’s “after-secondary-level” education is almost the same, but, why is it that Philippine’s education is not recognized worldwide? Example, a student finished a course as a Doctor in a Philippine University, planned to go overseas, instead of pursuing his dream to serve the world as a doctor, tend to work as a nurse. Why is that? I guess, it is because, “they” do not look our doctors as doctors. I feel sad about these matters. I do trust the doctors in the Philippines. They are really PROFESSIONALS. However, no one cares about this.

As how I can see the issue, I think, they are more likely because of the governance of our country. If I were to compare a country to girls, a country’s government is the beauty of a girl. Guys will initially fall in love to a girl based on its beauty, so as the other country will “get attracted (to invest)” to another country with the good proper government. Speaking of governments, I think, we are one of the least proper. There’s always political dirt, conflict, issues… never-ending rallies. Why can’t they just bear with the president for six years? In six years, if they just HELP the president, instead of pulling the president down, it may better up the economy. Will this even happen? i don’t think so. Politicians nowadays aim for the presidential position and want to lead the country. Don’t they know that as long as they’re doing this, it’s causing the economy to DROP! Why can’t they just help one another?

So, if that case becomes better and the economy becomes better and STABLE, the world may realize that Filipinos are way better than what they think are we. They do not know that doctors, teachers, nurses, dentists, and other professionals, are indeed EXCELLENT in their occupations.

I heard one case, from rumors and street stories, that one Filipino doctor, went abroad to work as a nurse. He passed the board examination in the Philippines, yet he did not become a doctor but a nurse of a lowest position instead. He worked with nurse-graduates. Every time a doctor examines a patient, he kind of “suggest” things to do, but the doctor ignores him. Could you feel how sad would he be, wanting a job he couldn’t have because, he CANNOT?

How I wish, the world may notice that OUR professionals are also professionals like them. What we study in universities and schools are also what they study in their own schools. We can also sing the ABC’s.. count 123’s and converse in English Language. We can also be good as them.

“Will there still be any hope for this?” I think, only time can tell.

onlymyopinions,

-arak3nah-.ü.

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Ears to listen

March 9, 2009 at 1:01 pm (words) (, )

“care to chat?” are the phrases i need to hear, assuring myself someone is willing to listen. how i wish, my someone will tap my shoulders and “beg” for my words. Yet, no one’s gonna do that to a person whose aura is now filled with hopelessness and melodramas.
Once, yours truly was having the nicest laughter you could ever hear. However, the present me is trying hardly to hide her true emotions.
I am a good listener, i may say. I listen to people, interestingly or not because I’ve hoped for their ears to do the same to me. But, why am i not seeing any ears lent for my stories? Am I not that interesting for those eardrums to work when my mouth starts to shape the syllables? Or, my eyes are just shut to see the real happenings? well, I do hope I can just open my eyes and see something that favors my happiness.
I listen, okay? Everyone wants to be heard. So, lend your ears. it will just take you a minute or so, neither is it harmful.

“You can learn a lot about a town by
listening to what it doesn’t show.”
Source:UBR-quotes

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The Ticking Clock

January 18, 2009 at 1:40 pm (Uncategorized) ()

“Tik.. Tok.. Tik.. Tok..”

hello there!

Thanks for stooping by..ü

Stay safe. Keep smiling.. :)

xoxo,
♥.arak3nah.ü</i>

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